i don't think we ought to accept premise of discourse along the lines of:
trans women are not women and that doesn't make me transphoebic.
Since ofcourse, it's a mistaken perception since sex - as in body - has a wide range beyond the binary as gender, imho.
However, i also think this position can come with the flexibility and beyond binarity it promotes?
to question willingness to engage via focus on subject beyond what makes X sex X rather than Z.
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